We are all human beings. That means we have a relationship with every individual on the planet, some closer than others, but we are all part of the same oneness. We wake up, do our morning rituals, walk out the door and we enter the world of relationships. Don’t trust people, why are they staring at me, are my clothes sitting properly, all those thought that make true relationship impossible.

What can we do to shift this paradigm, the eternal chattering. mind of our lives. We slow our lives down and listen for what are our priorities versus doing busy stuff to fill in time, to. make more money to make. me feel that we have made it. There is nothing wrong with making money but without the right mindset there is no way it will bring you happiness.

One area. to spend some extended time on is discovering your purpose, your why. Without a mentor of mine said you are just doing stuff, billionaire or pauper. Lets have a look at a list that Marc and Angel Chernoff have created in this area:. Here’s 20 Things to start doing. in your day to day relationships:

1. Free yourself from negaitive people
2. Let go of those who are already gone.
3. Give people you don’t know a fair chance
4. Show everyone kindness and respect.
5. Accept people just the way they are.
6. Acknowledge others and cheer for them.
7. Be your iimperfectly perfect self..
8. Forgive people and move forward.
9. Do little things every day for others.
10. Pay attention to who your real friends are.
11. Always be loyal.
12. Stay in better touch with people who matter to you.
13. Keep your promises and tell the truth.
14. Give what you want to receive.
15. Say what you mean and mean what you say.
16. Allow others to make their own decisions.
17. Talk a little less and listen more.
18. Leave petty arguments alone.
19. Ignore unconstructive hurtful commentary.
20. Pay attention to your relationship with yourself.

Thanks, my Florida A listers.

Time for some quotes to put on your wall and some music to muse over:

Turn to the left , Fashion.

They are your keepers.

My favourite wife of a POTUS.

You are looking in the mirror of your life in your relationships.

You get back what you put out, Ying and Yang.

Love me some Osho first thing in the morning.

You do not take other peoples assets without asking or paying them for them.

This freed me up in my relationship with women when I realised they were not asking to be fixed but heard and held.

break down the walls, its bridge building time.

The Ancient Chinese wrote some good shit.

The wisdom of the immortal Maya Angelou.

I have recently come across one of these, I am loving life.

There are to many relationships living in this arena, walk away.

Human Beings are wonderfully complex souls, aren’t we.

We are approaching the end and my why: Love and Respect for All, Everybody included: Why; It’s up to us, Because we can, it’s our time. will appear.My purpose , to save the planet for my three year old grand niece Tawera. I have been an environmental activist for 50 years and i do not want to face her as she gets on the space ship for Planet B, BTW, there is no planet B, but you knew.

Heres the playlist link: https://bit.ly/3qDIUhP

Thanks to my readers in 160 countries  across the planet, I appreciate you love of my words. Currently broke the 5 million mark, not bad for a High School drop out..